This is the way it is… Lots of people using a cell phone face adult content every day! Not only that, it is possible that you and I, woman or man, have in fact looked at this material one or more times (we’re all inquisitive) and, more probably, have tried for ourselves the joys involving adult phone.
“You know” she said finally… “Not really. Perhaps initially I guess I was, What i’m saying is he was contacting other girls to fill needs that I was supposed to be filling, however I realized that there was really no harm done. Of course, he was socializing with individuals other than me, but these types of services only deal with fantasies, topics that are imaginative to say the least, and not likely to ever be realized in real life, so I didn’t see it as a major problem, true, he was indeed involved in conversations of a sexualy nature, but in a settings in which the women he was talking to were just role playing.
“I’ll be honest with you and very much to my surprise, not I wasn’t that angry! Well, I suppose in the beginning I was, but you know what, I was more worried about the fact that he had used my credit card to pay for this, and at least, the service he called was cheap. You may say that what he did was cheating, and I would understand your point of view, but at the end of the day, this is not how I saw that. Were his actions welcome? No. Not really. Were they reprehensible? I don’t feel so. If you take into consideration the “trouble” we cause sometimes and the amount of banter we get up to with people we meet when we go on our ladies night, you know, the innuendos, and the gentle flirting, then I don’t what he did was any worse! So no… I wasn’t angry!”
Her reaction made me stop and think about it for a while. It had undoubtedly taken me aback, and I couldn’t help sensing that she may very well be right about this. Let’s be honest, it is assumed that the women who pick those calls are not like the pictures they put on their sites therefore it could possibly be possible that it’s not so much the woman her spouse phoned with whom he was having phonesex with, but rather a dream, a voice who was whomever he wanted her to be.
Had I not caught my own husband watching porn on several occasions, without me? “Bob (my husband) watches porn and I’ve caught him many times”! I told her. “If I am honest with myself, I would say that yes, I was angry, but more so because I felt left out”!
And just as I was going to develop my chain of thoughts further, my friend cut me off:
“As I said, the fact that he used my credit card was what really annoyed me. I had a go at him for that, made him stew for a while and when I was feeling more forgiving, I told him that next time he felt the need to entertain himself like that, he should ask me to participate! After all, why shouldn’t I be allowed some extra fun from time to time!”
I was shocked! This was my innocent adorable childhood friend I was speaking to. The girl who had her first kiss a whole twelve months after I enjoyed mine… Who waited to have sex until she was ready for it, which turned out to be after she graduated from college. And here she was revealing to that she and her husband were engaged in some 3some phone affairs. It was crazy… And interesting.
“Did you? I asked her. Did you do it? Did you and your husband have adult phone with another person? Your own virtual version of a 3-some!
“Indeed I did” was her answer. “And I know what you are going to ask next… YES! It was really nice!”